So it's over!!! it was a fun filled day everyone got everything they wanted and more.. and now it's over as quick as it came... tomorrow I will be taking down the tree (which is practically taken down due to the mass amount of needles it is
shedding at this moment!) the mantel will no longer house our nativity set and all will be back to normal... I'm kinda ready
So the kids and I have the next week off... We don't have any grand plans we are kinda just getting caught up on laundry and chores around the house..
Some new news, Hunter has been
tentatively diagnosed with
ADHD, I say
tentatively because it's only been through our school psychologist and
frankly she's not qualified to actually diagnose she can only let us know he has some indicators.. we have an
appt. with our pediatrician from there I think
I'm going to ask to be
refered to a specialist. I'm not completely against medication BUT I want to be darn sure we
aren't just wanting him to be easier to deal with and so zoning him out etc. I'm knee deep in books right now and so far from what
I've read he fits the profile kinda right on... it makes me wonder why it's just
manifested it's ugly head now in 6
th grade but really in
hindsight I've seen signs for quite a few years he's just had some AWESOME teachers and low class sizes to be able to manage and get him the one on one help he's needed at times.. Now that he's in a bigger school with more than one teacher things have gotten kinda out of control, but I don't know why I'm
surprised, My learning disability wasn't diagnosed until the summer before my 7
th grade year and my 6
th grade year was kinda a wash as far as learning or grades etc.. BUT my point is we are on top of it.. or at least as on top of it as we can get for now, the lucky part he's brilliant like actually tests off the charts as far as smarts go we just need to be able to teach him the coping skills to be able to get through life or at the very least middle school.
I'm thinking me being at the middle school was no accident... and the fact that
I'm actually working in Hunter's cluster (his group of students with the same core of teachers) even more of a blessing... I'm not sure if he would have fallen through the cracks were it not for me being their... it also helps his teachers can tell me when I need to crack the whip etc. etc. it's also helped one particular teacher who was kind of bullying him I could see for myself that allot of what Hunter was complaining about was TRUE!!! (
that's an ongoing issue more about that at a later date!)
more fun news Ben and I celebrated our 15
th wedding anniversary yesterday!!! we will be going out to celebrate this weekend (he has to work all week, yuck!) but I can't believe the life we have created together!!! it hasn't always been easy but it has been the most worth while
endeavor, the most fun and to do it all with my very best friend, PRICELESS!!! I can't wait to see where the next 15 years takes us.. I love You BEN!!!
anyway
that's all for now
ta ta